October Big Spotlight: Cory Sparks’ journey from mentee to mentor
Meet Cory Sparks, Vice President of Promotion at Warner Records, based in DeKalb County.
Check out this Q&A where he shares what inspired him to become a Big, how mentorship changed his life, and what he’s learning through his experience with Big Brothers Big Sisters of Metro Atlanta.
Why did you become a Big?
I was significantly shaped by mentorship during my teenage years. As a child who struggled to listen to those who didn’t “speak my language,” I learned that sometimes it takes someone outside your immediate circle to truly connect with you and guide you toward your goals. I decided to become that person for someone else, just as my mentors were for me.
How has a mentor impacted your life?
One mentor took me on my first college visit and steered me onto the right path when I was clearly headed in the wrong direction. Another mentor helped me secure my first job in the music business and taught me invaluable lessons about financial literacy. The positive impact of patient mentors on my life is something I could talk about endlessly.
Can someone with a full-time career and other personal commitments serve as a Big?
Absolutely, you can serve as a Big, but it requires intentionality with your time and a clear understanding of the commitment. While your schedule and your Little’s may not always align perfectly, it’s crucial to maintain open and consistent communication during the times you do connect.
What’s the most rewarding part of being a Big?
Although I am still in the early stages of my mentorship, I am already beginning to see the growth of trust in our conversations and a positive shift in behavior and thought processes. It’s incredibly rewarding to witness these subtle but significant changes.
Advice for a new Big?
I would encourage new Bigs to take their time in establishing themselves as a safe and trusted confidant for their Little. Building trust is the most critical factor, and that takes time and consistent effort. Additionally, taking plenty of notes can be very helpful.
Simple ways to support your Little?
Showing up and staying in contact, even if it’s a text message/facetime call, can go a long way.
Anything else you’d like to share?
Just try it! There is undoubtedly someone out there who could greatly benefit from your life experience and guidance.
Thank you, Cory, for your dedication to mentorship.
It takes LITTLE to be BIG!
Visit BBBSATL.org/be-a-big to start your own journey today.